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I wouldn't wish this on anyone.
Published on June 19, 2006 By Ms Mitchell In Blogging
OK Gang--I am officially homeless.
I am writing this from La Quinta Inns and Suites in Colorado Springs. If you have to be homeless, this is the way to do it. Thanks to dear friends who used frequent traveler points to book me a room.

I am on my way to sunny Phoenix, Arizona where I have to find a home for me and six of my kids before starting my job next month. The kids are staying with their big sister and her new baby.

Moving day itself is something I wouldn't wish on anyone. By 4:00 when I had to leave for a Graduation/Graduation/Farewell party I thought if one more thing goes wrong I will open a vein.

1. Mix up with rental truck--had to pick it up in Milwaukee instead of locally. That's ok, we can handle it.

2. Lost a day to phone tag trying to straighten out the rental truck mix up.

3. The electric company came to the door and said, "moving in or moving out?" I said,"Moving out...What brings you here?" He says, "I'm shutting you off." I say, "no not today, Monday." He says, "This is for non-payment." I say, "Hold it there, Sparky, can you give me fifteen minutes to make a phone call and straighten this out?" He says, "it won't do you any good." CLICK. He really enjoys his job too much.

4. I called the electric company, "Oh, look, here it is...We'll have you back on by tomorrow." You can imagine the exchange from that point. The upshot being once it's been shut off, it can take till close of business the next day to get it back on. They turn them on in the order the order goes through.

5. I went to the bank to close my account. "We can't close your account, you have a negative balance." WHAT!!! "What happened to my direct deposit?" "That came in on the 9th" So the next on is due... next Friday. Oops, my bad. Shuffle from this bank to that. All's good. 6. What's that smell? 18yo tried to disconnect the dryer. It's ok, he knows how but, the gas shut off handle broke of in his hand. So he grabbed the stub with vise-grips and shut off the gas. ok.

7. Off we go to the party. Said good-bye to people who have seen me through my personal Gethsemane. That was hard. I love these people.

8. Get home, no lights. What's that smell? Maybe this will get my lights turned on faster.

9. Emergency call to the gas company. Fixed the smell. Still no lights.

10. New grandbaby does not like broccoli flavored mommy milk. Walked the floor with daughter and grandson.

11. Hire the neighbor to finish the cleaning once the electricity is back on. BLING on come the lights. She asks if I want the money back. "I don't do bathrooms." At this point I'm thinking I wish the gas had blown up the place while we were at the party.

12. Apartment Maintenance Weinie says "You have to get that stuff out of the dumpster or we're going to charge you." "What stuff???" And he says, (and I kid you not) "All that garbage."
Time for my secret weapon, the One Long Blink of Death. He was instantly vaporized.

So far the drive has gone very well. Even bi-polar child AKA Hurricane Liam is being well-behaved. Katie and the kids should be to her house within the hour. I should be in Phoenix late tonight or early tomorrow.

If anybody happens to know of the perfect house for my family...do tell. All I can say is--This better be worth it.

Comments
on Jun 19, 2006

wow!  all I can say is "best wishes!!"  and I send prayers too your way

what you've come through is really a tough one! 

some people DO love their jobs tooooooooooooo much,  I've met a couple of them in my lifetime...know how that goes and how it feels too  

hang in there kitten!

on Jun 19, 2006
Sorry for your travails.  Having moved many times as a kid, I am not anxious to do it as an adult.  So far, only moved 4 times, and I think I will stay put for now.
on Jun 19, 2006
all I can say is "best wishes!!" and I send prayers too your way


Thanks. Yes, please pray for us.

I think I will stay put for now


Don't blame you. I hope this is home once and for all.
on Jun 19, 2006
best of luck to you, sounds like you are really making the best out of a ummmmmm tense situation. Good on you.

prayers all goes well.

MM
on Jun 19, 2006
To quote the Prophet Little Richard: "Good Golly, Miss Molly!"

I am shaking my head in disbelief for you, but thinking "see, this is how she gets all that good writing material."
(OK, I know you don't need this for inspiration, but I was trying to find a positive.)

As someone who moved 7 times in the past decade, I feel for you. (I told Mrs. Moskowitz, the next time I move, it'll be easy, seeing as I'll be in an urn and all.)

Just remember that these are just problems and they will get handled, but something tells me you've had a life that's made you damned near unflappable. Nevertheless, I am sending my prayers for you and your family to finally get settled and situated in something resembling home real soon. When will you get back to your writing (that was a question and not meant to pressure you in any way).

sincere best wishes, Moskowitz
on Jun 19, 2006

to quote another Prophet:

"Movin on up!  To the west side!  To the deluxe Apartment in the No Humid Zone!  Yea, we are movin on up!  Movin on up!  To that deluxe apartment on the West side......"

on Jun 20, 2006
What a day! (You really mean all that crap landed on you in one day?) Someone must reeeeeally be testing your limits.

Your articles are always enjoyable. Life is a pain but you sure know how to laugh it off and stay strong! (Please, no more talk of opening a vein.)

Good luck on the move. Hope you find a home that works out for everyone. You deserve the best!
on Jun 22, 2006
(I told Mrs. Moskowitz, the next time I move, it'll be easy, seeing as I'll be in an urn and all.)




Someone must reeeeeally be testing your limits


They say God doesn't give you anything you can't handle. Some days I wish He didn't have quite so much confidence in me.

prayers all goes well.


Thanks. I need prayers. And a 4br 2ba in a nice neighborhood.

To the deluxe Apartment in the No Humid Zone!


If one more person says "it's a dry heat..." Wet/dry doesn't matter when your seat belt buckle leaves a burn.
Really though...it's 108 today and it feels like 85 back home.

on Jun 28, 2006

Here's wishing that you had one too many problems that day and you couldn't move! ;~D

I know of one perfect house for you... the one right next to mine.  Of course, that one doesn't come with a music teaching job, so it might not be as perfect for you as it would be for me. ;~D

I miss you and your fam, Maggie. Our goodbye hug wasn't nearly long enough. ;~D

on Jun 28, 2006
Our goodbye hug wasn't nearly long enough. ;~D


I know, but I don't need Pam mad at me.

I was studying my scriptures this morning and I was reading in Exodus 14. "And they said unto Maggie, because there were no graves in Wisconsin hast thou taken us away to die in Arizona? Where for hast thou dealt with us, to carry us forth out of Wisconsin? Is not this the word that we did tell thee in Wisconsin, saying, Let us alone that were may hang out with our friends in Wisconsin? For it had been better for us to stay with our friends, than that we should melt in Arizona. And Maggie said unto the children, Fear not, stand still and see the salvation of the Lord, which he will shew to you to day: for the Wisconsinites whom ye have seen this day ye shall of a surety see again. The Lord shall fight for you, and ye shall hold you peace."

Nice to know that even Moses said, "if you don't SHUT UP, I will pull this car over."


Maggie
on Jun 28, 2006
Wow, you had some day. Doesn't seem fair that you got dumped on like that all in one day. Hmmmmm maybe that means you're home free for the rest of the year? Naaaah it never works like that, but we can dream.

tommorrow is another day, here's hoping that all things will be bright as light for tomorrow and the next day and the next.......

Sending up a prayer for you and yours.
on Jun 29, 2006
Sending up a prayer for you and yours


Thanks! I am accepting all the prayers I can get. I just have to believe that God has arranged this all for our good. Something really important is about ot happen for us.